I’m sitting in the cafeteria at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester, NY. Jenny and I are waiting on news of Rocco’s surgery. I’m feeling pretty damn good about it. Maybe I’m just kidding myself and my psyche isn’t processing what is happening. I’d prefer to believe that I am that confident about the surgery and Rocco’s physical toughness. I couldn’t help but wonder, in the weeks leading up to this day, why it was happening. (If you don’t believe in God, or that there is a g